VIRTUOUS WOMAN

Proverbs 3:5

"Trust in Yahweh with all your heart, and don’t lean on your own understanding."

Proverbs 3:6

"In all your ways acknowledge him, and he will make your paths straight."

Proverbs 3:7

"Don’t be wise in your own eyes. Fear Yahweh, and depart from evil."

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It means God is there and He should be the one making you to take decision, go the place that you go. Your life is no longer an accident if this scripture is your watch word.

Proverbs 31:10-30

Virtuous there means excellence, remember the Bible talked about Daniel and Joseph that they have an excellent Spirit- that is the Holy Spirit. He brings excellence into you when He resides in you. Every woman that has the Holy Spirit is an excellent woman. But there are things you must do to make excellence practicable.

For example, the Holy Spirit doesn't speak in tongues but He puts the ability in you, so when open your mouth the Holy Spirit causes the right words to come out of you.

Proverbs 31:10

"Who can find a virtuous woman? For her price is far above rubies."

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The excellent woman price is far above rubies because the spirit that she has can not be bought.

Proverbs 31:11

"The heart of her husband trusts in her. He shall have no lack of gain."

Proverbs 31:12

"She does him good, and not harm, all the days of her life."

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Her quality makes her husband trust her so much so that all his accounts and business details are in her custody because he knows she'll never do him evil. Now if this is not your story yet begin to check yourself, don't think a man who puts effort to marry you will all of a sudden desire to do you bad, no! Something must have gone wrong with your management in the house. During counselling I always ask women, this your husband you call demon was he always wicked to you? They'll say no always. Hear me dear sister, the Bible says you're one flesh when you marry and it says no man yet hateth himself. How can a man who spent money, time and energy to marry you just wake up one morning to hate you? Check yourself and make amends now for a happy home.

Okay, back to the scriptures.

Proverbs 31:13

"She seeks wool and flax, and works eagerly with her hands." (Ephasize her hands)

Proverbs 31:14

"She is like the merchant ships. She brings her bread from afar." (This is business)

Proverbs 31:15

"She rises also while it is yet night, gives food to her household, and portions for her servant girls." (loving to house maids, some will wear the house help rags but nicely dress their own kids. As a man let me inform you that men take note of this things)

Proverbs 31:16

"She considers a field, and buys it. With the fruit of her hands, she plants a vineyard." (More source of income)

Proverbs 31:17

"She arms her waist with strength, and makes her arms strong." (She's not lazy lying down from morning till night, or watching home videos all day, again the man takes note, more reason why he can even share some strategic financial plans with you)

Proverbs 31:18

"She perceives that her merchandise is profitable. Her lamp doesn’t go out by night." (Making good sales/deals)

Proverbs 31:19

"She lays her hands to the distaff, and her hands hold the spindle." (Hard worker)

Proverbs 31:20

"She opens her arms to the poor; yes, she extends her hands to the needy." (Philanthropist, giver)

Proverbs 31:21

"She is not afraid of the snow for her household; for all her household are clothed with scarlet."

Proverbs 31:22

"She makes for herself carpets of tapestry. Her clothing is fine linen and purple."

Proverbs 31:23

"Her husband is respected in the gates, when he sits among the elders of the land." (He is respected in the town, among family members and neighbors yet the Bible never mentioned anything about him providing yet, because once he has trusted her she has become the custodian of all his wealth, so the question of not providing does not arise.)

Proverbs 31:24

"She makes linen garments and sells them, and delivers sashes to the merchant." (Always developing business ideas and making profits from them)

Proverbs 31:25

"Strength and dignity are her clothing. She laughs at the time to come." (Her generation can never lack helper)

Proverbs 31:26

"She opens her mouth with wisdom. Kind instruction is on her tongue." (Evidence of the Holy Spirit in her. Not a ranter, nagger, gossip or backbiter)

Proverbs 31:27

"She looks well to the ways of her household, and doesn’t eat the bread of idleness." ( Stop sleeping at home and be quoting scriptures to your husband that you don't understand, if he's an infidel because his money is not enough for your extravagance, what then shall we call you being idle? at least he brought something)

Proverbs 31:28

"Her children rise up and call her blessed. Her husband also praises her:" (she earns the praise that's why it didn't come from the beginning. It didn't say her husband praise her that's why she's a virtuous woman, rather it says she's praised because she's a virtuous woman. It's not love me first then I'll serve you, no! Your service stirs the love that's already there otherwise you wouldn't have been the one he eventually married.)

Proverbs 31:29

"“Many women do noble things, but you excel them all.”" ( I know there are working class woman who shares responsibility of the house with the husband, some say let him pay school fees let me buy food, that not wisdom, infact that's the strategy of a desperately wicked mind. When you earn trust, which does not come easily with men. You automatically handles even his own finances so where does the sharing comes from, since you're the finance minister and treasurer. Because of wickedness and subtle distrust women have deviced a way to checkmate their husbands who ordinarily wouldn't mind to give them all. The reason why what am saying is paining you now is because that seed of wickedness is in you.)

Proverbs 31:30

"Charm is deceitful, and beauty is vain; but a woman who fears Yahweh, she shall be praised." (Fear of God has nothing to do with going to church or praying, it has to do with doing the word just as the scriptures says it, people wonder why a man who marries a beautiful woman still looks outside, they don't know that when you remove virtue [character] from a beautiful woman there's nothing more to desire)

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Finally dear sisters, if you want to see total happiness do these things, even the devil wants to be submitted to. But if you're married to an unbeliever or a baby Christian please come to the counselling room for more advise.

God bless you!